Do what I can but still have questions 4

[soccerwife]

OK, how about this, I have an all new perspective of Mort Fertel's (MF) Marriage Fitness Program (ironically also MF). And I don't think that there is too much overlap between DBing and MF that they can't be used together.

Once the DBer gets to the acceptance and proactive action stage, the MF program is totally applicable. He answered a couple of my questions and it was totally on par. I still feel that the program is MUCH more applicable to people who have their spouse's cooperation but if you hang in there, the end of the program steers more towards the LBS (lone ranger).

More to come when my bottle of wine wears off. I do have to admit that I have been lacking on GALing, mostly because I am here at home w/ kids alone again, but at least it is what I want for my actual GALing. I would rather have family time that anything else.