Good for you, Tad. I know how very hard that was for you.
I know if feels wrong to you, but, she has decided that, right now, she does not feel the same about you. Now, if you were to call her, what would you be saying to her?
If you said, W, you are wrong, we can work it out, you can feel the same way, I promise. How do you think that would make her feel?
I think she would feel that you are not hearing her. That how she feels doesnt matter. That the only important thing is how you feel, ya know?
If you are to love her unconditionally, then, you need to validate her feelings and honor them.
It doesnt mean they cant change in the future. But for right now, you need to respect how she feels.
She has given you some very valuable information. Time to look inward and bit and see what part of what she said is valid. Why would she feel that you wouldnt care? Is there any reason that you need to look into?
Tad,she may be a bit angry that you didnt respond. That's ok. You are doing something different. Keep doing that and she will see the changes are real. More importantly, you will feel that they are.
