Mail from OW's husband today - apparently he believes my H is moving down to be with her in the near future. Abandoning his son.

What's the word for shocked but not surprised?

H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11