I'm sorry Antonia, I replied to your prior post before all heck broke loose with your father.

I'm glad you are not going there. You are in the process of trying to forgive your Ex-H FOR YOURSELF - FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT.

Your family doesn't get a say in that. At ALL!

Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011