learn to apologize for wrongs you commit, own them (that means you don't keep repeating them) so there's nothing for her to keep hanging onto
if she does-then help her learn to forgive. If you have sincerely apologized for an "injury" to her
put a Statute of Limitations on how long she can bring it up...
FWIW, it's a rare event that my h would want to ML after a big drawn out hurtful fight.
Unless that were the case,
I don't understand women who use withholding sex as a negotiating tactic or form of punishment for something out of the past.
(unless it's in a good fun way).
I say Call her on that.
Stop tolerating it. It's weird.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
