I suspect that their may have been things that SSMguy has done that his wife is upset about and that he should ask his wife for forgiveness about.
Yes, there are things she's been angry about, but not a major thing like an affair or anything. She's a lot more mellow now that I don't ask for sex. But when I was pestering her in the past, she would counter with a never-ending list of complaints, some of which were clearly fabricated excuses. But others seemed legit. But sufficient to shut off one's spouse??! Like the 3rd time in a row I forgot to put the dishes away in the dishwasher? OK, I guess that can seem like I didn't care! Or the one time I was late meeting her in a restaurant? She remembers that even years later. Yeah, like Dr. Phil says, women have a looooooooooooooong memory!
