I haven't wanted to say it...but I think you are seeing it. Your STBXW is now beneath you in every way.
That doesn't take the pain away. It doesn't take the anger away. It doesn't take the betrayal away. It doesn't take anything away, but someday it may make it easier to move on...knowing that the person you loved was deeply, deeply ethically flawed. The stupidity and selfishness of these two is mind-numbing. It literally makes me sick.
As a co-worker of mine said, after a certain amount of bad behavior, your Ex becomes one of 'those' people. The type you can't even relate to anymore because their behavior and lifestyle is so trashy. Come on, birth control people. Its been around since the 1830s. Even an aspirin will do the trick if you hold it between your knees.
You have my permission to begin referring to the OM as your STBXW's 'baby daddy'.
Shackin' up with a married man while still married yourself because your pregnant with his baby - now that's class!
I feel so bad for the OM's family. He's a grade A D-bag too.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011
