Thanks AJ Mr. Bond and E - lots to think about. I appreciate all of the advice. I don't always like to hear it. Sometimes the posts I recieve cause me great anxiety.

But at least i am reading and absorbing. Not always argeeing but always absorbing.

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12