Thanks Mach, well said, and heard.

I guess it is that same old balance that is tough here.

Feel...

Without acting out.

That is part of the strength we need.

And I admit, a lot of my motivation for not acting on the anger is because I know it would be a gift for her. It would make it so much easier for her if she could say "see!"

I won't give her that.

I won't let myself be beaten down like the dominicantuberiders.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.