1) You can't force her to do anything. Simple as that. The anxiety you're feeling is coming from the urge to control. It [censored], but that's how it is. What you can do is to learn techniques to control that anxiety. Go running or something physical, meditate, etc. Anything to get your mind off of the sitch. Start that right away. The more you do this, the faster the anxiety will go away and you'll be able to deal with her with a clear head.
2) Most WAS's say that they need space, etc. So rather than fight her for it, give it to her. BUT continue to work on yourself. You need to do a dramatic change. What were her issues? Write them down, print them and hang it up. Make it a point to address each one. It'll make you a better person in the end.
3) Stay consistent. Our WAS will swing back and forth from positive to negative. However, YOU must remain CONSISTENT. Even when she is spewing at you for no apparent reason, stay the same.
4) Remember what got her interested in you in the first place. Keep that in mind. Slowly increase the positive interactions with her. Imagine that she's a stray dog that's wandered into your yard. You don't rush forward and give it alot of attention. It'll run away. Slowly approach. Slowly give it food. The next day water. Earn it's trust. Then it'll come to you. That's what you need to do to your W.
5) Learn patience. This is the hardest which is why getting rid of your anxiety or at least lessening it is very important.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
