It's a terrible spot to be in. If I blow him off, then yeah, I just do what he does to other people. But if I go, he will be abusive to me. And I don't deserve it and shouldn't have to take it. I'm trying to find a line to walk here and the only line I could think of is to say for the 4th time, I'll come within hours if you want anything or need anything. And he just ignores me.
I actually spoke to my sister in Germany and she and the other sister have both now said "don't go when he's like this."
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
