I have worried that she is waiting for the holidays to come and go before she boots me. She hasn't really said anything to make me think that, just how my brain works.
I'm sure you realize that type of thinking has to go. Easier said than done, but you have to do it. One thing you *don't* want to be is your own worst enemy.
The holidays are months away. I'd hate to see you spending the time up until then getting more and more anxious over 'what-ifs'.
Originally Posted By: ChrisW
Example: in her words were "some days I think I want to make this marriage work, other days I don't". I want this to be a positive statment and compared to where were a few months ago her words have changed. But, is it positive?
It's more positive than "I'm done" right? In other words, *take* the positives from it. Is it ideal? Maybe not, but it may be the best you can get *at this moment*.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
