I do need some advice/guideance....(well I need tons of advice and guideance) but our 13 year anniv. is coming up next month. Which is a week before her birthday. I am not sure how to handle this. We never have had a lot of money so in turn we have never been big on huge gifts for these events. In fact most of our anniv. have been spent at home with our kids. I was thinking of trying to make this one more special (mainly because we are still together, and I am very grateful for that) but I dont want to seem like I am trying to hard. Any advice??