She said she was willing to work on us and herself. Now she's saying that she wants to work on herself. Basically, we can talk now, but nothing else has changed. She told me that I'm a completely negative person and she can't be around that...so, she can't promise anything. Yet she continues to tell menshe loves me...not in love with me. If I'm so negative, why is she wanting to open the lines of communication? I'm getting mixed messages. My daughter asked me why her mom and I were talking more. I told my W about this. She asked what I said and I told her that I don know what to say because I don't want to get her hopes up. She responds with, "I wouldn't say that was getting her hopes up. I really want to work on this. And on me". Am I just being a male and not reading between the lines? I'm confused...so,so confused.
I'm jumping the gun with her and I need to back off.
I'm just so tired of all of this. I'm not sleeping well, my emotions are in
