another long road for you... take care of yourself and your boys... give them the opportunity to state any emotions they have... they will grieve and get past in their own unique ways...
manage that anger as productively as possible... still remains a matter of being strong for your kids... we know small towns and people will talk and you don't need the kids hearing stuff at school or on the street...
you might hold that anger for a life time... or not... and that's OK... but letting it out is a good thing... and done in good ways is great...
