Got an apology from XH. Need advice now.

[AntoniaB]

Oh and incidentally....he did tell me that his mom LOVES OW. His whole life has been a cycle of needing parental approval and then rejecting it. When he walked out the door, I kid you not, this is what he said, with a very bewildered look on his face: "All of this has happened before." Later I said "what did you mean by that" and he said "I said that? I don't know."

Well, I do...