sounds like a lot of positive things. Just follow your own words -- detach and see where it is going. Even if she is pursuing (which it does sound like) if you take the bait too quickly, she will take off running again!
Slow and steady wins the race. We here at DB have to keep the patience of saints, but in the end if we have our families, it is worth it. Take it slow. And let us know how it progresses!
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed