AJM- I have looked for ways for them to connect with their father. He cancels everytime. I have not let the kids know when he says he will visit so they don't get disappointed. But, there were two times they knew he said he was coming when they asked and he never showed. No call or text. They are hurt and frankly don't want to see him right now. So, I guess its okay he doesn't come around. I just think the longer it goes on the harder it will get. Can't he understand that.?!? Frankly, I am NOT going to nag or beg him to see his kids. His actions speak volumes.. WHile I ache for my kids maybe it is better he 's not around them if he truly doesn't want to be.
