I seriously appreciate your honesty...! Thank you! You are right about a few things here. I can see why he would tire of me..i do see where he has been more in a caretaker role too.
I know the disconnect happened after d was born. The romance..the intimacy dwindled. He became detached and I remember asking him often to be intimate but he didnt really want to. We both were under stress. Then the time came after moving here where he wanted to be intimate...but i wasnt in the mood for it.
I have been looking at my fault in this and i accept my side of mistakes. I guess i'm so wrapped up in his ea and the pain of it.
We both have each neglected one another at some point. And ....i am sure it was all adding up to this moment. You are right, 25....he glimpsed a life he would like to have. I hope it's not too late for us. I don't know 25...if he were flat done...maybe he would have already left...maybe he is waiting around for awhile to see what can change.
Thanks for giving me a different perspective.
What i need to do is
Continue gal Give space/back off Stop being confrontational Relax
I think now i understand what he meant when he said he needed a woman that is strong. He told me he saw me as strong from what i physically endure. I didnt get it at the time, but he must have meant someone who is emotionally strong, confident, etc.
He doesnt want to be intimate...and has said if it feels right to him he will. I stopped asking or trying about six weeks ago because i wouldnt pressure him for it.
Man... I am so sad right now. How pathetic do i look on this forum.
