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[soccerwife]

H is being a complete a__hole tonight. He gave me the silent treatment, refusing to acknowledge me all evening. Then he kicked me out of the living room so he could sleep on the couch (I was in the middle of Rocky III). I was as pleasant as ever. Then he went in to "how his feelings don't matter" and "I do whatever I want anyway" and "no one cares how he feels". He went as far to claim that I "don't give a crap about anyone but myself".

I can feel my anxiety flaring up.

Is anyone else out there dealing with unwarranted anger from their WAS?

I have never done a single hurtful or malicious thing to him EVER. Ya, a lot of the problems we have are due to behaviors of mine, but nothing was ever on purpose. The only thing he can possibly be angry about is me being unwilling to compromise my character and mutually agree to D. WTF does he think he is?