You are coming up on your divorce...so emotions are a little high for everyone right now. Including her.
Look at her text to you…
She does not say that she is thinking about things, does not say that she does not want a D, NOPE…sorry man and I know how much it hurts. Boy do I.
She does say that she wants to be friends.
What does Tad want?
What does Tad think he is capable of?
I have been where you are man. It is that place where anything she does is looked at as a sign that she is coming out of it.
IMO, she is not.
IMO, she is trying to be nice…
Why?
I have my own idea but based on my own sitch it may be a bit skewed.
Let me ask you this…do you think she is being nice so that you will give into whatever demands she has.
Tad, I normally do not say this man..and I do not want you to lose hope buddy…but RIGHT NOW…this very second…as you are reading this…you need to let go…
LET GO TAD
Stop trying to THINK that all of a sudden she is gonna wake the f up and come running home to you. It usually does not happen that way.
LET GO Tad.
FOCUS ON YOU TAD
Based on what I know NOW….Me, I would not even respond. Nada. Nothing. I would delete the message so that I did not have to look at it.
This ^^^^ is based on what I know and where I am NOW. It’s hard Tad…really hard man. My heart goes out to you.
That feeling of hopelessness, the despair, the sense of loss, the feeling like this is really the end.
I am sorry but maybe buddy it is.
AND END THOUGH…..ALWAYS…(the key word….is ALWAYS)….
ALWAYS….LEADS TO A NEW BEGINNING.
LET GO…LET GO…LET GO….
You know how to reach me man if you need to talk. You can also reach me via other means..if ya know what I mean.
My heart aches for you buddy…BUT YOU will get through this.
YOU will survive and THRIVE….
MAYBE…..
With YOUR WIFE.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
