Thanks AJ and Eric. I hope you guys are both well. I agree with everything that you both said. I'm staying out of W's and S18's relationship.

It has been a very emotional day for me. I have started a new thread and you can find it here:

PLEASE!!! Need help quick! Calling all vets!

Please help and encourage some of the other vets to chime in.

I appreciate everything.

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13