Y'all are too funny! Hey - I do have an extra bedroom right now and a partially finished basement.
Room for one more adoptee? I think jb would need to change his username to Brangelina at that point though.
Anyway, I'm stunned at how your W still refuses to see how her actions are affecting your S, jb. You did say that she tends to see the results of poor decisions further down the road so that seems to be slightly positive, in that perhaps his realization will be delayed. But yes, having a twice D'd sister as a confident does not seem very logical.