Wife no longer in love with me - Part 3

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Had the session with my DB coach this morning. Unfortunately nothing has really happened given I am trying to be ‘dark’ so there wasn’t much to report on or advice to receive that was different.
He did have a view on being dark and whether that was suitable for me. He didn’t really think it was that essential, as it feels like I may be acting punitive – but I guess my W is doing the same thing to me anyway.

He asked that I make contact with my W, given I said I would a couple of weeks ago to tell her to come over to get her things. I have to go overseas again tomorrow, and again next weekend. So he suggested I try and meet her next week to give her a set of keys to the house. Scared to do this, as I probably won’t see her again after that. Will need to manage my anxiety and not panic, but I think I will give it a shot.

I emailed her this morning and said I am o/s again soon and sorry for not getting back to her. But let’s try and catch up for coffee next week and perhaps I give you a set of keys.
Sent this two hours ago, and no response yet.

I’m not sure of this approach, I much prefer the darkness theme, but I guess he is the expert here, so I haven’t got much more to lose anyway by trying this.