Things got a little interesting with my S at the end of the day at work today. My S called me at work and told me he'd forgotten his planner and his homework at school. He asked if he could watch some TV or play video games until I got home. I had to dish out the tough love. The answer was no! He begged, he pleaded and overall did a poor job of DB'ing me out of my decision. I ended up leaving early and running him to school to get his homework and planner. We talked about things he could do differently so it wouldn't happen again.

My W came to pick him up earlier. I relayed all this to her. She seemed to approve. When she got here, I was out in the driveway in a lawn chair. We talked for a bit. Another pleasant exchange. We primarily talked about our S and what's been going on with him. Unfortunately, she made no mention at all of anything close to her actions having any influence on him at all. There was no direct D talk or R talk. She mentioned a couple of pieces of advise she had gotten from her friends with 3 kids (who I think has never been married smirk) and her twice D'd sister - it's hard for me to give those sources too much credibility, but I did listen. This whole thing just drives me nuts sometimes crazy We're getting D'd because ???? crazy

I had my Tuesday night group at church tonight. Another good group meeting. I was the only guy again tonight.

I took a 8.6 mi. ride this morning before work and I'm getting ready to take one here shortly under the cover of darkness. crazy (MTS - this two-a-day's for you! Okay, okay, it's just a couple of short bike rides, not football grin)


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26