As for your kids, look for opportunities to help the kids reconnect. Seriously. It'll suck for you, but don't let that get in the way. Compartmentalize it as much as you can and realize that kids need their father. Look for those opportunities and encourage without interferring. If you don't, only your kids lose. If you do and it still doesn't work out, then you have taken a positive action and can be content knowing that. Later. For now, segment the parts and do the best you can to deal with the situation as it is.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
