At every opportunity, her H has chosen to pick a fight with her and deflect his problems onto her and make them her fault. She's too soon into this happening so emotions are running high on his part.
He will take the opportunity to "vent" and have her take the blame. The best way to not be a target is to not be available.
She has more than enough time to meet with him after things have calmed down a bit.
Just my .02.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.