Val:

Thanks for journaling...you've helped me in my situation.

I'm in a similar stage...the D is becoming real and it's put me in an emotional loop as well. When I think about it, it's like learning someone close to you is terminal ill. You go through the "stages" and you learn "to deal" with the situation. When the person does finally succumb, it opens up a bevy of emotions that you thought you had worked through.

As we all know, no way to bypass this phase. All we can do is keep on keeping on. Hang in there and know that you are not alone. The weather here in LA has been nice...maybe getting out and enjoying the sun will lighten your mood.


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M: 47; W: 39
M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years
No children
Separated: 01/19/11
Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11
Wife moved: 03/05/11
Responded: 04/14/11