It's hard to do things when you don't feel appreciated for them. But that doesn't mean they aren't the right thing to do. Just means you have to appreciate yourself for them instead of relying on validation from the other person.
Or come here and have us validate you.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2