Navy, this is speculation on my part.

I think her anger was directed inward at herself. I doubt stress from schoolwork was the source. You were wise not to inquire further. You gave her an opportunity to express it she chose not to. She will though. When she does all you can do is DB as you’ve learned to do so well, remember the 37 rules, particularly 23 through 27.

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My plan so far is to just continue what I've been doing and to let her steer the ship

Good plan no pressure. IMO she is questioning her motivations about M/L with you. She is questioning her decisions. Give her space to process. Keep showing her the man you’ve become, the father you are. Give her time to decide to love you and her life with you and the children again.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill