I am sorry you are feeling a little frustrated today.
It's funny you mentioned the rings. My W and I haven't worn ours since May and I haven't had anyone notice or even ask about it. My W says the same.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012