After my last post and I'm driving home, my wife calls me!!! At first I ignored it, but she kept ringing, I then answered, I said hi and did she have the kids with her so I could speak to them, she said no, so I just said that I didn't really want to talk to her right now and could she get the kids to call me later and said bye She rang and rang! Then she left a voicemail saying that I had sent a text and had my say, but I wouldn't listen to her side and I was unfair? I sort of agreed and called her
She was all sad because we had argued??and what her mother had said, she said she had felt ill all day
I said that I have loved the last few weeks talking to her but she had changed, she said that she had loved it also!!! That she was becoming comfortable around me again and hoped it wasn't spoilt!!!
She was upset about her mothers comments and said it made her feel guilty about going to a party and that she didn't mean to say what she said, and it was not what she meant? I said you weren't at a party you were with some man, she totally denied it and said it was a party that she only went to last minute? We are split up 12 months, so she didn't have to lie?, I'm very confused what to believe?
She apologized to me for saying what she said?!!! And hoped that we could still be friends!!!
I was very moved, I told her that the last few weeks had been the happiest for a long time, and at times I felt we were together we got on so well, she agreed! ! More confusion!!
We said bye and she will get the kids to call me later
What is going on here? I'm totally lost?
She has a new man, but wants to be friends, was upset about us arguing and apologized???? If she has moved on, why call me?? She could have just left it and told me nothing?
So what now??? More detaching and just go with the flow??
She seems emotional, do I tell her I love her? But she knows already
