A Little Bit Stronger

[ClingingToHope]

NNP, if you read MWD's stuff on the "Grass is Greener" phenomenon, one of the big surprises for Walk Away Wives -- I'm not saying you are one, it's just an overall thing you have to battle -- is that divorced or single men look to date younger. On my profile, I put a range of 32 to 42. I'm 42.

The online thing feels weird. Messaging with people and THEN meeting. Usually, you see someone first and feel the attraction and then see if they like you. A lady messaged me a few times, she seemed nice, then we met at church and I wasn't attracted to her.

I felt guilty. But the whole thing really seems backward.

As far as being ready to date. My XW told the girls not only would she never remarry, she'd never date again. That was early in 2010. She's so withdrawn that I actually thought she might mean it. Now, in 2011, she's on Match and Chemistry.

I think you'll get there in time.