Sorry I havent posted in a long while. I have been busy with the DBing. Not been on the PC much.....Wish I could say all is fixed and going well. But we all know that would be way to quick. Still at home, giving the W space and letting her work through this whole mess at her own pace. We pretend everything is normal only no "I love you" or any kind of married couple things. I am just thankful to still be able to see her and the kids everyday and be apart of their lives. I am slowly introducing the idea of a M/C and she is kind open to it. She told me Sat. that she has days where she thinks working it out is a great idea. Then others when she doesnt think it is possible. Not sure out to take that other than just roll with it.