Cadet -

I'm already 50 pages in and it's quite an amazing source of insight. Things my wife had said to me over the past few years, her crying when each of our kids went to kindergarten for the first time. Even my behavior these past few years. It's almost scripted. I shake my head in fury that couldn't have seen/known about this before.

My only discomfort is the religious undertone. I started going to church again early this year and I understand the direction the authors are coming from. I guess it just kind of stirs up old memories of my mother forcing me to go to church as a kid. I will not mention this book to my wife since she will see it as me trying to 'fix' her, but if she stumbled upon it I'd be concerned that she wouldn't take it seriously in her current frame of mind.

I know I'm early in the book, but I'm beginning to think that it's not me anymore, but my wonderful wife who is actually Sadak in Search of the Waters of Oblivion........