Yes, I think so. We had a mixture of individual and joint therapy sessions so that we could both say things freely. There was never even a hint of any complaint about my sexual technique. In fact, I would have been happy if there had been something clear that she found unsatisfying, because then it would mean I had something clear that I could work on, and it would also mena she was engaged in the therapy. As it was, she just dreaded every session, no matter how nice and careful the therapists were. She could never get over the feeling that she was being taken to the woodshed for her lack of interest in sex.

To make the catch-22 aspect of this clear, she would say that the whole process of going to therapy was a "real sexual turnoff". Well, as experienced had shown, not going to therapy wasn't working either.