Thanks everyone.

Just noticed that "married to" is no longer part of his FB profile. Ouch! I see he also went out and bought some moving boxes and has started "staging" a move in the basement.

Is me just trying to stay poisitive and work on myself and try to do things that get positive reactions from him and avoid those that get negative ones really going to change his mind.

Or am I doing this just to put me in a better mindset to deal with the ultimate divorce?