Update - just when you think it is safe to breathe . . .
Xh has been acting nice for 4 months now, and we have even talked on the phone, and then last night . . .
As part of the financial settlement I get half of a fund of my xh. Was warned it might take a while to transfer, but after 6 months I contacted the fund, and turns out they had not received the paperwork from the Court. So I send my copy of the agreement [this all takes time btw] and that isn't enough. My lawyer had put all of my papers in deep store, and it is actually the Court and xh lawyer's responsibility to send the papers. So I talk to the nice lady at the fund, and `I give her xh's lawyers' contact details, and they say no problem , just need to check with xh if we can send the papers over, and he says "no'. WTF
It is so stupid, all I needed to do was contact my lawyer, who gave a deep sigh, and said 'how unbelievably stupid and petty,' and she has arranged for the papers to be retrieved and sent over to the financial institution.
This isn't a favour he is doing me - and no email or explanation to me, although I got a friendly email about an article he had written, sent a few hours after he knew I would have found out about his refusal . . . .
Why do they do this stupid stuff? I will get the money,maybe a day later. So easy to say yes, . . . .
They are crazy, still crazy.
i have decided to ignore it though, as I suspect he is trying to get some kind of reaction . . . . just a hunch, but actually, good people, I have a life, and do not need this stupid stuff, and the people who do it.
