The year of not my problem

[AJM]

Ok. I'm not sure if that should make me laugh or not.

The number is not important in the sense that it is used to refer to "a lot" or "infinite" amount of times.

I like Veggie Tales though

Tough to do for sure, but I am finding it a good way to go. To know that I am not the first to have to face this type of issue. It's a test of sorts. I see it as a personal challenge....

What is tough sometimes is to help differentiate between forgiveness and boundaries. i.e. I forgive you for what you've done to me. Each and ever time I distinctly remember forgiving you for things I very much remember forgetting. But I will not let you continue to do them to me.

For me that means silence. It means not letting her use me for her fuel for anger. Not as a "real" participant at any rate.

Thanks for stopping by...

AJ