Gunny: Your situation is very, very similar to mine. You need to focus on yourself and GAL. You and your marriage are not even on her radar screen at this time - all she can focus on is getting out. The grass is greener on the other side at this point. You need to become the man she married - better than the man she married. Don't pursue, don't beg, don't plead - focus on yourself and moving on with your life. Use the LRT. Once she sees you will flourish without her, she may reevaluate. But you cannot control that. Time and patience. Be the best you can be.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012
