Thank you everyone. I realize I need to be at peace with the decision. It is just not what I planned for myself or family of course-just as most of us here. Well he has 18 days to respond to petition. If not he defaults on everything. L and I both think this is what he will do. He has never had a plan-just like 25 said-just keep doing what hes doing till it doesn't work for HIIM anymore. Well, I put my foot down on that now that I filed. It will be comforting to know I have that money coming in every month without asking.