It stories seem to run similar with a few minor detail differences

1. XH not as good a father
2. OW not the best of choices
3. XH continues mAKIN POOR CHOICES FOR MANY YEARS after bomb
4. some get apology- some xh try to return
5. most do not want to pay and try to adjust the support
6. some abandon their children althgether some abandom their family of origin
7. some turn to addiction of some sort
some few seem to get real help and stick with it
8. MOST OF THE lbs seem to land on their feet
stronger some in new relationshiops, many with good careers and good relationships with family kids and friends.


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow