thank you greenblue, I appreciate your input. I definately agree with what you say. I have been galing, biking, going back to school for another masters, joining local church group. Last night we had dinner, it was her birthday and she just got back from ohio, wanted to do something nice for her possibly last birthday with me. She is very sorry about what is happening, but is insistent that she must do this in order to make herself happy, she has not been happy for years she says , she is in business mode now she says, and will be leaving in six weeks. I think what is really bothering me is that she will be moving 550 miles away, and she is taking our dog, I have never had problems with depression, but the grief is coming at me in waves, luckily, going to work and having structure in my day really helps. Has anyone else out there dealt with a similar situation where w moved far away? Any success storie? Thank you again for all help, you guys and girls are great people!!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!