TM- lots of great advice given to you. I completely understand where you are at right now where you are regarding a D at this point, but I want to remind you of what you've said to me many many times.
Patience. Patience. Patience.
I'm not suggesting you wait around to see if W & OM fizzle (which we both know will happen) I'm only reminding you to make sure you are at peace with whatever decision it is that you make, and I don't think you are quite there yet.
I think your a helluva guy and have been such a great friend to me these past few months, and I hate that you are hurting right now.
I'll be thinking about you.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤