Still in the marathon - did I miss a turn?

[jbnati]

Thanks so much for stopping by, E, especially in the midst of the h3ll you're going through right now.

I also agree with LP, that the first part of that list "regarding D" is definitely not a good idea.

I think I'm pretty much getting a concensus. I really think that's what the voice in my head's been telling me. I'm not sure I would be telling her anything she doesn't already know.

That said, I still think that one casual R talk is NOT going to be the nail in the coffin of the M or push your W to D, but you have to do what feels right for you, jb.

I think it's probably best to play it by ear. Look for the right opening. Try not to force anything.

I can say one thing in response your situation above and in relation to mine. I don't know whether it's the GAL'ing or that my W's moved out, or that my W's made moves in the direction of D, but I am finding myself frequently feeling much less anxiety now than I did at times before bomb #2.

You're one of my favourite posters on this board and if I could wave a magic wand and put your M back together, I would do it. Because you deserve it. Your S deserves it. Even your W deserves it (even though I want to scream and at her and tell her to wake up!)

Thanks for that, E! ((()))