I touched on this on your thread, but thought I'd answer here as well.
Yes, dating was always a priority in our marriage. We used to spend time each week either going out with friends or on dates for just the 2 of us. When H dropped the last divorce bomb at the end of April, I stopped scheduling sitters for date nights; I didn't want to pursue him when the last thing he wanted was to spend alone time with me.
I think it's awesome that you and your wife are dating. Keep it up. Remember...going dim doesn't mean that you cut her completely out of your life. Just take some time away from constant contact with her to work on YOU and let her miss you/wonder what you are doing a bit. But if she is still up for weekly dates and things go well, by all means...go out with your wife!
