Got an apology from XH. Need advice now.

[TAMF]

tarot reading was very interesting, I was dying to find out what the cards said! I mean, it is fun. can't take it for anything more than that, but sometimes it is WEIRD. crazy dead-on weird. back in October i went to vegas with my bffs from High school and college - I got a tarot card reading from an american indian girl and she was so completely dead-on that I started to cry.

she didn't know me at all. I was already separated from my STBXH but still very much in love with him. I didn't have my wedding ring on any more. I went in and didn't say a single word! she has me cut the cards and then she placed them all out on the table. The very first thing she says to me?!

you are in love with someone who is with someone else.
this man you love is mentally sick, there is something wrong with him.
this woman he is with is much younger than he is.

(btw, still haven't said anything)

she went on to describe my personality (I haven't said anything to this woman except my name!) and she described me to a tee! then she went on to describe my STBXH to a tee!

she kept going back to him and saying "he is a mess...you need to leave him alone. he is a mess." then she asked if any of this made sense and I said that it was my husband. she said, he is having an affair. It won't last but it will continue for a while. you need to leave him alone he is a mess.

THEN she said that I was going to meet someone else. (i thought, yeah right, whatever!) she said he has a lot of the same characteristics as my STBXH but better. you are going to fall hard an quick. THis is the real love of your life. he has light eyes, very kind. and facail hair, like a goatee. She said that it wasn't clear if I get back with STBXH because this new love I find is going to change me. but then she pulled the last card and it was a card of regret! she said you STBXH will regret what he has done so much. but you might not care anymore.

at that time, I thought, i won't meet anyone! only my H is for me!

btw, I met this man she described.

we are not together.

I had totally forgotten about the tarot card reading I got way back in vegas, then your post reminded me.

crazy dead-on wierd!