I really enjoyed reading your post Valkerie. I am in a similar situation with you "alone". See my posts which are under my name "ayngl". I don't know what to do.
M 45 H 44 Married 9/09 Seperated 9/10 Not yet filed for divorce 1/11 - H meets OW in another state 9/7/11 - H tells me he is moving to another state on 10/1/11