It went OK. I was calm and in control. She talked with her head down in short answers.
I mentioned how hard this must be on her. Her, head down...yeah.
We meet at Daycare. So I said, it will be tough at daycare. I swear her eyes popped like she hadn't even thought about it.
She said she would tell them.
I did tell her that I hoped that she would now start moving forward with the D as quickly as possible.
She tried to push back to me. Saying that all the things she needed to complete the forms was at the house (my house). I know when she handed me those papers a while back she was hoping I would just take care of it. I said this D is still her responsibility.
I told her I know and that we will have to schedule a time for her to get what she needs. As well as the remainder of her things.
She mentioned that she had a key and could come by. I screwed up here. I should have asked for the key right then. Didn't think of it.
I told her I was not comfortable with her coming by unannounced and that I do not want her in the house without me.
She said something like "I wouldn't do anything funky."
I said I know, but that I am just not comfortable with it.
TBH, I just don't trust her right now. With good reason I believe.
We also discussed the schedule to meet tomorrow morning. It is mixed up a bit do to nothing worth discussing here, but this did cause her to have to mention she had a Dr. Appt tomorrow. That stung a bit but didn't let it show.
Oh, speaking of showing...wow. I am surprised I had not noticed before. But I guess I was always focused on getting in and out quick, never looked I guess.
So now the kicker.
She pulls off as do I. As I get to the light I see her pull into the adjacent parking lot. And guess who is there. Yep....OM.
He jumps into the car and they pull out. I am still waiting for the light and they drive right passed me. His dorky ass looking right at me.
OMG, he IS a dork! I couldn't believe it. He was dressed like the guys in Pulp Fiction when they put on Quentin Tarantino's clothes at the house. Kind of pudgy too.
I actually kind of chuckled.
Oh man, it feels good to have D here tonight. She brings a light with her.
Peace all.
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