I think it is fine for you to go to the concert with her. It's something you want to do, so do it! Plus, if going out together brings you two closer then by all means, go for it. I think there are several people on this board who would love to be in your shoes with their WAS asking them out.
You wrote that you won't see her all week, so I think that will really make her look forward to seeing you this weekend. Again, going dim isn't about being rude or ignoring the WAS; it's about allowing yourself to emotionally detach and make some changes while giving the WAS time to miss you and wonder what you are up to. So play it cool this week, and then have a blast on Friday evening. Look super hot, and maybe wear something new or a new cologne. Get her attention!
It's important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to DB'ing, ESPECIALLY when one is in our shoes of already having a divorce on file and are separated. Hey, separation has been the best thing to bring my H and me together over the last couple of weeks, and that may be the case for you two, as well. I sure hope we are both success stories.
You asked me on my thread about dating my husband. Even with four kids, we made it a priority for most of our marriage to have a date night at least once a week. Part of having four kids means having a list of sitters to rely on! Once he dropped the bomb (this time), I stopped scheduling dates; I didn't want to appear to be pursuing him. I'm hopeful that soon we will be back to "dating" again.
